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everything right so far. You got the date,
you went to the right place, you didn't say
the wrong thing and everything looks good.
Now, how about that second date.
There seems to
be an unwritten rule that neither person
calls for a second date for at least 3 days.
If you call any earlier, you'll look too
anxious, right? Wrong!!! I'm going to give
you a tip that will virtually guarantee that
you'll get a second date if everything has
gone well up to now.
incredible how many times people will go out
on a date, have a good time and then tell
everyone about it - except the person they
were with. It's almost unheard of for
someone to thank the other person the next
day. This is the heart of this tip.
The day after
your date, I said the day after, not two or
three or four days after, call the person
you went out with. If an answering machine
answers, great. If the person answers,
simply say I only have a few seconds to
talk. Then, in either case, say I just
wanted to thank you for a great time
yesterday. I had a lot of fun. I hope we do
it again soon. That's it! After you've said
those words, say goodbye and hang up. It
shouldn't take more than 10 seconds. Don't
make the mistake of getting involved in a
longer discussion at this point. Ten seconds
Why is this so
powerful? As with so many of these
techniques, it's because people so rarely do
it. How many times has someone called you
the next day to say thanks. Probably not too
often maybe never.
particularly powerful for women, since men
arrange the overwhelming majority of first
dates. Ladies, as you've learned in this
book that's a major mistake you're making.
If you do the asking, you're bound to have
great success. But, whether you're male or
female, this is a powerful technique with
It is excerpted from "How to be outrageously
successful with the opposite sex" by Paul