THE CHOICES ONE MAKES WHEN DATING by Elisabeth Dabbelt

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When dating, it is important to think through the elements involved in this life experience. We have already discussed the need for positive first impressions and personal image, now it is important to understand the goal of selecting the type of person you would like to date. Decide what kind of person is your “type.” Ask yourself, are you attracted to blondes, brunettes, redheads, etc. Do you like exotic types or the “girl or boy next door?” Whatever type you choose, think through your preferences. Understand why you prefer that type of person. Understand too that the broader your range of types, the more likely your success in dating.

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Also, remember to choose persons you will have a good chance of dating. Be realistic in your expectations. For example, if you are looking to date a person who is a high profile glamorous fashionista, understand that you will be expected to show those characteristics as well. There is nothing so incongruous as a person who thinks letting oneself go will attract a well-groomed and well presented individual. Such a mind set is asking for disappointment. Make sure that you are in tune with your idea of persons to whom you are attracted, so that they, in turn, will be attracted to you.

Aside from physical traits, you must understand that the need for your own intellectual development to shine. Any matchmaker For more information contact Elisabeth Dabbelt, CEO - Elite Introductions, LLC. www.elitesingleprofessionals.com; Email - EDabbelt@bellsouth.net; will tell you that physical attraction is important, but after the first impressions, physical attraction only goes so far. There is nothing as discouraging as dating someone who is fabulous to look at, but cannot hold an intelligent conversation. Likewise, if you are attracted to intellectuals, you must keep yourself intellectually up-to-date. Be wellread and hold your own in any conversations about current events, entertainment or social trends. If you expect your date to keep up with what’s going on in the world, you should make the effort as well.

Next, there are the values that you will want from a dating partner. These include social, family, and sexual values. Values go hand in hand with other types of characteristics. If you want to escort someone to a gathering in a business setting, you will want someone who has social graces so that you can enjoy this person as an asset to the event. Likewise, you should be able to demonstrate such social acumen. The same goes for values related to home, property, and family relationships. The ultimate test, of course, is sexual values. Remember, if you are in the dating game only for sex, or if you are dating someone who is only in it for sex, you must be completely honest, and you must require honesty from your that person.

So, as you navigate your way through the complexities of dating, remember to choose your type, and make sure that you are keeping up your end or your own dating requirements.For more information contact Elisabeth Dabbelt, CEO - Elite Introductions, LLC. www.elitesingleprofessionals.com; Email - EDabbelt@bellsouth.net