Dating Tips FOR MEN - Looking Good and Ready to Start Dating by Elisabeth Dabbelt

When you first begin to reenter the dating scene, there are several things that you must keep in mind. After ascertaining that you are emotionally ready to date, you will need to consider whether or not you are physically ready to date. You must be feeling and looking your best to make a success of dating.

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There are several criteria for this, not the least of which is fitness and wardrobe.

Fitness and wardrobe go hand in hand with the image that you project to the world. You must look like you are ready to date. Begin by doing an assessment of your looks and your style.

There are many ways to make this assessment:

1. Looking in the mirror with great honesty,
2. Asking trusted friends,
3. Hiring a paid professional (a reputable matchmaker or image stylist) to assess your looks and image.

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For many people, a combination of all three is required. One immediate observation should be your fitness level. If you are not already fit, work on this. Start working out and get into the mindset that says, “I am ready to start living life to the fullest.”

The next step is to take a look at your wardrobe. This is an important element, and all men should know that this will be an on-going project, not just a first date task. Know that women will notice what you wear and you will be assessed by them as to whether or not to continue seeing you. It is no small factor, so take it seriously. Women notice little details too. Are your clothes clean? Is your shirt in need of ironing? Do you smell good? Remember that these are not unimportant details to women, for they are constantly scrutinized by men, society, media, and other women to look their best. Know too that they may never say anything to you about the fact that you smell bad or your fingernails are grimy, but make no mistake, they will remember it. If your wardrobe needs a revamp, have your friend or paid professional accompany you to your closet, then to the store to guide you through getting your clothes up to snuff for dating.

Every man over the age of 25 should have:

1. One black and one navy blue classic single-breasted good-quality suit
2. One casual jacket
3. Well-fitting jeans (at least two pair)
4. A collection of solid colored well made cotton shirts.
5. Three pairs of good quality leather shoes, in black and brown. These shoes should be modern and in good condition
6. One good quality masculine watch
7. One good quality leather wallet
8. One bottle of discrete, high-quality cologne

Pay attention to the shoes you wear and make sure that they are polished and ready to make a good impression. Women notice shoes and jewelry, so if you wear any jewelry, make sure that it is masculine and matches your personality.If you need to research this further, look up books about style and men’s clothing. An internet search will produce many books available on the subject.

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